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December 29 2014

22:30

Sorry

And now for my sorry notes to some people I knew…

Amanda: You are going to have such a wonderful life. You are the most talented and pretty little girl I’ve ever met and I love you so much, Amanda. Please don’t be sad. I’m going to miss you so very much. I love you.

Tiffany: We haven’t talked much recently since we’re both so busy but I’m so happy you’re my sister. You are so courageous and determined to achieve what you want, you can accomplish anything. I love you.

Justin: We’ve been jerks to each other a lot recently but I really do love you. You get on my nerves almost all the time but no matter what a part of me will always love you. Sorry for picking on you so much when we were kids.

Rylan: I’m so sorry I’m never there for you. I love you so much.

Abby: Thank you for dealing with my pathetic problems, all I did was make your life harder and I’m sorry.

Mom and Dad: Fuck you. You can’t just control other people like that. That’s messed up.

I don’t really feel the need to apologize to anyone else… odds are you didn’t give a shit about me and if you do, you did something that made me feel like shit and you don’t deserve an apology.

Also, anyone who says something like “I wish I got to know him better” or “I wish I treated him better” gets a punch in the nose. 

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December 28 2014

22:30

Suicide Note

If you are reading this, it means that I have committed suicide and obviously failed to delete this post from my queue.

Please don’t be sad, it’s for the better. The life I would’ve lived isn’t worth living in… because I’m transgender. I could go into detail explaining why I feel that way, but this note is probably going to be lengthy enough as it is. To put it simply, I feel like a girl trapped in a boy’s body, and I’ve felt that way ever since I was 4. I never knew there was a word for that feeling, nor was it possible for a boy to become a girl, so I never told anyone and I just continued to do traditionally “boyish” things to try to fit in.

When I was 14, I learned what transgender meant and cried of happiness. After 10 years of confusion I finally understood who I was. I immediately told my mom, and she reacted extremely negatively, telling me that it was a phase, that I would never truly be a girl, that God doesn’t make mistakes, that I am wrong. If you are reading this, parents, please don’t tell this to your kids. Even if you are Christian or are against transgender people don’t ever say that to someone, especially your kid. That won’t do anything but make them hate them self. That’s exactly what it did to me.

My mom started taking me to a therapist, but would only take me to christian therapists, (who were all very biased) so I never actually got the therapy I needed to cure me of my depression. I only got more christians telling me that I was selfish and wrong and that I should look to God for help.

When I was 16 I realized that my parents would never come around, and that I would have to wait until I was 18 to start any sort of transitioning treatment, which absolutely broke my heart. The longer you wait, the harder it is to transition. I felt hopeless, that I was just going to look like a man in drag for the rest of my life. On my 16th birthday, when I didn’t receive consent from my parents to start transitioning, I cried myself to sleep.

I formed a sort of a “fuck you” attitude towards my parents and came out as gay at school, thinking that maybe if I eased into coming out as trans it would be less of a shock. Although the reaction from my friends was positive, my parents were pissed. They felt like I was attacking their image, and that I was an embarrassment to them. They wanted me to be their perfect little straight christian boy, and that’s obviously not what I wanted.

So they took me out of public school, took away my laptop and phone, and forbid me of getting on any sort of social media, completely isolating me from my friends. This was probably the part of my life when I was the most depressed, and I’m surprised I didn’t kill myself. I was completely alone for 5 months. No friends, no support, no love. Just my parent’s disappointment and the cruelty of loneliness.

At the end of the school year, my parents finally came around and gave me my phone and let me back on social media. I was excited, I finally had my friends back. They were extremely excited to see me and talk to me, but only at first. Eventually they realized they didn’t actually give a shit about me, and I felt even lonelier than I did before. The only friends I thought I had only liked me because they saw me five times a week.

After a summer of having almost no friends plus the weight of having to think about college, save money for moving out, keep my grades up, go to church each week and feel like shit because everyone there is against everything I live for, I have decided I’ve had enough. I’m never going to transition successfully, even when I move out. I’m never going to be happy with the way I look or sound. I’m never going to have enough friends to satisfy me. I’m never going to have enough love to satisfy me. I’m never going to find a man who loves me. I’m never going to be happy. Either I live the rest of my life as a lonely man who wishes he were a woman or I live my life as a lonelier woman who hates herself. There’s no winning. There’s no way out. I’m sad enough already, I don’t need my life to get any worse. People say “it gets better” but that isn’t true in my case. It gets worse. Each day I get worse.

That’s the gist of it, that’s why I feel like killing myself. Sorry if that’s not a good enough reason for you, it’s good enough for me. As for my will, I want 100% of the things that I legally own to be sold and the money (plus my money in the bank) to be given to trans civil rights movements and support groups, I don’t give a shit which one. The only way I will rest in peace is if one day transgender people aren’t treated the way I was, they’re treated like humans, with valid feelings and human rights. Gender needs to be taught about in schools, the earlier the better. My death needs to mean something. My death needs to be counted in the number of transgender people who commit suicide this year. I want someone to look at that number and say “that’s fucked up” and fix it. Fix society. Please.

Goodbye,

(Leelah) Josh Alcorn

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malformalady:

Blood cast off from a suicidal gunshot wound to the head

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I wish movies could be about LGBT characters without being written off as “gay movies”. Why don’t you just call it a “movie”? Nobody calls your movies “straight movies”.

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paulotoledoartdump:

This is an update to the sketch I previously uploaded… yeah, I know. Who update sketches? well… apparently me.

This one isn’t going any further, though. And besides the colour on the face, I don’t really know if there is anything different… anyway.

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December 25 2014

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insectaffection:

insectaffection:

CHICAGO AREA TRANS COMMUNITY CASSIE BEA IS MISSING

»> PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE SIGNAL BOOST IF YOU CAN ««

cassie bea has been staying for the last week with me, mayazimmerman and policedronecrashesintopolice at our apartment in avondale. she disappeared around 6:30pm 12/24/2014. she may have initially been heading for the taco bell on belmont and milwaukee but she is definitely not there now.

she is about 6’1, has short hair and glasses. she’s probably wearing jeans and hiking boots with a blue/green jacket over a light-colored sweater.

i know it’s only been a couple hours but cassie has been going thru some really rough shit lately. she has been in and out of the hospital several times in the last month for paranoia and bad depression. she is generally very friendly but she may be a bit paranoid/confused about where she is. our concern is not that she ran off without telling us but that she may be unable to find her way back / confused about how to get home.

her purse with her identification, bus card, etc. is still in the apartment. we think she still has her phone but we found a sim card on the floor shortly after she left. our #1 concern is that she may be picked up by the cops, esp since she doesn’t have her ID and may not have the contact info of anyone in the house she’s been staying in. 

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE SIGNAL BOOST THIS

i know it’s xmas eve and i know it’s late but cassie is a wonderful, compassionate young woman and all we love her dearly. if you see her please contact me either thru tumblr (insectaffection.tumblr.com)  or facebook (https://www.facebook.com/insect.affection).

and let her know penny is worried about her and loves her.

we had one solid lead that put her near Kilbourne park about an hour ago… … 10:30 PM Chicago time. I don’t normally ask for multiple reblogs but I updated some of the information above.

if any one has a car in the Chicago area and can’t sleep on this Christmas Eve and wanted to help me search for missing friend, I’d really appreciate it.

Message me for my contact info

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can i please sleep for more than two hours per night pls and thnk u

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rj4gui4r:

Straight men tryna please they girls like…

December 24 2014

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I’m seeing a bunch of people do a “6 selfies of 2014” thing, so I figured I’d do it!

I don’t take many selfies because I hate how I look as a boy and I rarely get a chance to dress as a girl, so I’m only posting 5, but this year was a big year for me. Thank you all for being kind and supportive!

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